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We're not in high school anymore"Shut the fuck up."
What is it with you dudes? Have you no decorum? Any manners? No game? How is it that you feel it's ok to approach women in the manner that you do? Have we become such second class citizens to you? Or is it, could it be that we women have set no standards to the kind of approach we should accept from men, that you all feel it is absolutely ok to let a female know what you're intentions are with her before courtship of any kind? I remember I knew this guy once. Nice looking dude. Could have gotten the pussy, but talked his way right out of it. He would always indulge in telling me graphically how he wanted to do me and it disgusted me. From the position he would eat it in to how long he would last. It was just more information than I could handle. I'm going to tell you a little secret, women know, if not right away that men want to fuck us. That is like your genetic make up, one of the goals men subconsciously set for themselves at birth. You want to meet women and screw if only for one night. I remember reluctantly trying to tell this guy how he was rubbing me the wrong way. It was hard for me, I don't know why, but then it just was, now is a different story though. His response was the classic ignorant response many of you men give when a woman bluntly tells you that you need to shut the fuck up. "You girls be talkin' about how ya'll want niggaz to keep it real with ya'll, tell ya'll what we want but ya'll can't handle it." What a fuckin fool. There is a thin line between telling what you want and being downright rude. Correct me if I'm wrong but is telling a female whom you are friendly with but have never been on a date with or have any incling of romance between you how you want to "eat it from the back" is just plain disrespectful? Clowns like him and the next one I'm about to mention clearly doesn't realize that when it comes to getting sex from a woman, pertaining to speaking on it, less is more. Another thing you should not do gentlemen is tell us what it is you are going to do with our pussy unless you are sure the feeling is mutual. Like in the case of this big white babbling bafoon that owns a club out in the city. He promised that we would go on several dates to the theater and some restaurants. It never happened. No real attempt at seeing me like he claimed he wanted to was made and I didn't press cause quite frankly if no effort was put in I have to take it that the interest really isn't there. Ladies take note. So there was this particular night I'd promised to visit him at the club. Rather I'd made a few promises but this night I was really thinking about coming through. The truth is, I hate clubbing. The crowds and the expensive ass taxi rides to and fro. So I start whining to him about the cab fares and he's like pressing me to come out there. Then he makes an offer to me, that I can stay at his house because he is not too far from there. My right eyebrow raises at this point. So we're on AIM now and I'm like. "Stay at your house? So you can try to have sex with me?" He goes, of course I'm going to be fuckin you and we're not in high school anymore! ...Well no shit captain obvious! And guess what neither are we on the fuckin hoe stroll! I mean wtf has he done for me to deserve making future claims on what he is going to be doing with mine?! What he gave me a bottle of Moet at the club in which you own??? Wigro please! Needless to say, I didn't go see him that night nor have I spoken to him since then. In the name of Star, applaud me! I mean we didn't go out, get a chance to know if at certain tempatures we get cold sores or if one of us chews with our mouth open. So why on this green earth would he think I would drop it like it's hot for him? Was it the kiss? Oooooohhhhh the kiss. Sorry bitch, a kiss is just a kiss it doesn't mean I want to lie down with you. Next! But really, the one dude that must really have me ready to stomp him out is an older man in his mid 50s and with a live-in nonetheless. He is so bold to the point I want to throw up on him. He says things like, he wants a taste and he is sure he will get this. LOL maybe I should be so bold as to tell him that he should invest in a serious visit to the orthodonist because with that breath alone he is lucky he even got close enough to me to tell me that. And maybe I should buy his ass a gift certificate to the nearest nail salon to get a much needed manicure for those dirty ass claws that he walks around with on his hands. And how about a hot stone pedicure. You think if I did that he would think I was being truthful or rude? I mean I have to ask cause when I tell him he hasn't a chance in hell and he is being rude his response is life is short and he is too old and there is not time to beat around the bush. No bitch, what it is is that you are too old to be so ignorant as to how to approach a woman. At his age he should be teaching the youngin's on how to snatch up women not how to get the shit slapped out of them. I'm not sure where you men are picking up this brute type behavior but in the real world not even the hood rat truly wants to hear this shit. First thing thr vagina belongs to us, we make the rules on when we want to give it up, whether it's within one hour of meeting you or a year. Being an obnoxious fuck will not get you the ass. Be cool, be genuine, be a gentleman, but don't be a fuckin pig. Being honest does not mean being rude. Matter of fact here... hon-es-ty (n-st) Pronunciation Key Audio pronunciation of "honesty" [P] 1. The quality or condition of being honest; integrity. rude [rood] Pronunciation Key There, hope that helped. So in closing, gentlemen if there is a brain in your head, USE IT! Ladies, we don't have to stand for this, a man comes at you the wrong way cut his ass off fast. Take nothing from him not even a compliment. I mean in the case of the last guy what made him not think the odds are against him? He has a live-in, his breath stinks, his nails and feet need over time work and then on top of it he has no manners! Believe me and this is coming from someone who swears she will never find a man. The sea is full! We don't have to accept the shit that many of these snot faced bafoons dressed in a man's ensemble has to give out. Sure for every 1 good one there are 100 bad ones, but when you do the math you're bound to meet even a half a moron that you can laugh with that won't try to put his hand up your dress and tell you that he is just keeping it real. LOL has the age of information changed us so much? Do we feel time is against us and it's now or never? Do we feel we shoud take what comes to us? LMAO, no way. I've been with the shit of the shit and I'm here to drink a corona to meeting a man with couth who is a little less candid and who knows that the way to my vagina is moreso in the effort he puts in, the interest he shows and the freshness of his breath and him knowing when to kindly...shut the fuck up. |
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