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Trustworthy"Without trust there's nothing"
In a relationship what are the qualities that make a bond last and worthy of the name? Well first things first, if in a relationship the two people that are involved whether it be same sex or opposite sex, having established a good friendship can make the relationship stronger and last longer. Believe it because it's true. Don't get me wrong there are a lot of couples out there whose relationship started out sexually and they've been together for a long time and maybe for years to come, but take it from me, friends before you are lovers helps a lot. The next detail in having longevity is love. Tell me something, if there is no love on both parts or love is coming from only side in a bond then why would anyone want to be in a situation like that? Love is essential and inevitable if the connection is going to work, and not the love of sex. Sex is not love. It is a mere feeling of pleasure between two that many times is short lived because no friendship was established and no feelings were involved. Don't get the two fucked up! Hence, if the two aren't sexually compatible an intimate relationship will not last. But because there is love for a friend a meaningful relationship can take place. Moving along to the situation at hand, another serious aspect in a working relationship is trust. The other night I got a phone call from a new girlfriend of a platonic friend of mine of ten years. She wanted to know who I was and why I was calling her man. Now I laughed at this bitch because I thought she had a lot of fucking nerve calling me and she just got in the picture. I calmly said to her, like the fucking lady I am, that I've known this man for ten years and he and I never had sex nor have we come close to it. I also stated that she was going about the situation all wrong and that if I was the same bitch I was a few years ago I'd of told her what she could go do with herself. A year ago, I told her, I was doing the same thing you are right now and I can assure you that if you continue you will find yourself alone and heartbroken, as did I. Ladies if you feel threatened by the presence of another woman that your man knows, before you go picking up the phone and calling the other girl questioning her I strongly suggest that you step to your man first. Number one you might hear what you want to hear and secondly, I was nice the next female may not be. Bigger than that it may be purely innocent. If you feel that you can't trust your man's word or him as a person, then guaranteed, the situation you're in is no good for you and you need to get out of it. Without trust there's nothing, not even sex in many situations. Before I sign off I'd like to add that gentlemen, if you're seeing a female that you constantly take out on dates, call regularly, buy her things and you ain't hittin' it, then in the worst case scenario she's taking you for a ride, so don't be so quick to whip the next man's ass over a pretty face because the pussy may not even be tight. And ladies if you're seeing a man who does not take you out, only calls you to have you come over, and you've never met a friend or family member then you're just getting fucked. Don't go checking the brothas cell phone calling back numbers because honey getting served multiple times a week does not constitute wife status. So until next time know your shit is right and if the person you're with is not trustworthy then the relationship isn't worthy of being in. |
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