Ode to Sex

"Sex is a beautiful thing so embrace it"

Nov 11, 2005

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Sex, it goes back to the beginning of time. Why, we all wouldn't be here today if it were not for sex. In some countries women engage in this activity as a profession. In others, women are allowed to have as many babies as their vaginas can contain but they are not allowed to sell intercourse as a means to support those kids. Sex sells. No matter how far our city officials push strip clubs out of our neighborhoods horny men and women like me, still find our way in to tip the girls. Halle Berry got her sex on in Monster's Ball and snagged an Oscar for it. Sex will even put you on the NY Times best seller list for writing about your sexcapades with celebrities.

When women like Janet Jackson go from pop innocence to sex vixen they still manage to sell records and in some instances more than before. George Michael sung that sex is natural and good. But if it's natural and good then why do so many people have these twisted sexual hang-ups? The Oracle, as I like to call a good friend of mine, said with sex there is fear. This means that if a woman, while with her man, encounters another attractive woman there is the fear that this female will some how try to home wreck the relationship. In this situation (which I've been victim to many times), it's a clear sign of the insecurity of the woman and of her relationship. I mean really, if a female is sure of herself and the man she's with would she be worried that the next female would be able to break that bond? You may have your own logical explanation for this because so many women experience this threat. The truth is a lot of women are insecure with themselves.

Hypothetically speaking, let's say a man fell for the temptation of another woman. Is it believed that if sex takes place between this man and the "home wrecker" that her sex would be so powerful that he would leave his woman? Sex is not love. Stop being so damn selfish! How dare women to think that because they have THE label that they're man is now liable under some invisible ethical law to have sex with them and only them for the duration of the relationship. Especially if you live together or see each other frequently, when does the tension build? (However, if my man goes out and sleeps with the next one, I'd fuckin' kill him.)

Another sexual fear is of women who are sexually free. In this instance I am talking about women who strip or model nude or semi-nude on the internet and otherwise. I met a fool recently, right here off the World Wide Web. I thought this man was attractive, I could see myself having sex with him, always a plus. And when I spoke to him on the phone and found he actually had time on his hands, his own money, and didn't mind casual conversation I was very pleased. But like it's been said I'm honest to a fault and I let him know that I had a website pending launch. He stated, (in an email of course) that he was and I quote: not a fan or a trick. And he has never dated strippers, hookers, prostitutes, women in the sex business. His reasoning, they are usually fake and out to get a man for his money.

Each time I think about his statements I am somewhat tickled yet bothered by the preposterous ignorance of it. I for one thought it was highly presumptuous of him to assume that some woman, whom he'd never met at the time, would be after his money. I mean the nerve on this guy. As if he was some well known high roller, Donald Trump type, to assume I'd be interested in his ends. I say, if you're making an ass out of yourself, you're probably assuming©. For starters, I've known and experienced that some strippers end up with some loser who they end up taking care of. There's a psychology to that but I won't get into it here. And furthermore before one thinks that women who are in the sex business are money hungry whores they should ponder this point of view.

We're entrepreneurs. If this is my website it equals MY BUSINESS, which means I OWN IT. If we own a biz, particularly a successful one, it proves we do not need or want your money. Look past the sex. Would you not rather assume that these women are self sufficient and driven? Hungry to make their own money so they won't have to depend on you financially? Or would it be better to get involved with a woman who makes excuses as to why she has done nothing with her life, just wasting away?

I think had I stated that I was investing in a McDonald's franchise how impressed he would have been. The hell with the fact that McDonald's uses laboratory created "natural & artificial" flavoring and coloring in their foods. They help aide millions of people into obesity. And I am sure the sodas and juices they serve, the syrup for the pancakes, the ketchup, the cream they use for their fruit salad, down to the sesame seed buns all contain that high fructose corn syrup which seems to be in every piece of processed food and drink known to man, which promotes diabetes and secretly has Americans wondering why their children are overweight.

I say all of that to say this. With the right partner sex is fantabulous! It's made me cum many times. When protective measures are used sex is safe. A stripper should not be scrutinized she should be embraced. Her job is hard. Dealing with horny men who are ignorant to their sexual issues and who possibly have no respect for women, but particularly women in that line of business. A woman who poses naked or half naked on the net or in magazines or who is even a porn star should be applauded. People tend to believe that a person is some how not using their brain when they opt to use sex as a means of financial security. What an absurd notion! If a woman has a body of a goddess, living in this world where sexual suppression is so extreme that men will pay to see what they can't on the street everyday, she would be a damn fool not to! Now that's what I call using your brain, we go girls!

A sexually free woman can mean great times in the bedroom. She may be more susceptible to doing things than the woman with the hang ups. Sex is not a bad thing, no matter what they tell you. We all do it, we all think about it. If there wasn't so much suppression can you imagine no sex crimes? We can learn a thing or two from the so-called lewd and savage tribesmen living in the "wild" of countries like Asia and Africa. The Oracle always says, if women were to walk around naked all the time there would be nothing to look at. When it's hidden, that is when people get curious and have to have it. It's hidden from us from birth. Always covering up the beauty of the nakedness. Always looking down on sex and the power it brings, the control it has.

Sex is a beautiful thing so embrace it. Two consenting adults should be able to do it for the exchange of funds. Parents should speak to their children about sex early to deter them from the bigotry of it, in the hopes of raising adults free of hang ups and full of sexual understanding. So I say to all of you reading, you come here to see me selling my sex and I love it! I am celebrating sex. Because of it I've gotten some of the greatest penis penetration of my life. And even when I can't get any penis, toys were created in your name to help me out. When there are no toys I use other means invented in your name to satisfy my urge. Sex, you make the world go 'round and you work best when love or extreme lust is present, and sometimes alcohol. Sex I love you! I've gotten better with you over time. When I have you again, (with a fabulous penis attached I hope) it's better than the last time. But if I don't, you'll always be in my heart, my mind and forever etched in my vagina.

If you'd like to comment or query feel free to email me at afro-disiac@akynos.com

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